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Barry Oshry has made a life long study of why people in systems do what they do, frequently making things worse rather than better, as they intended. Learn about this at www. powerandsystems.com.

Also, Dr. Morris Massey's life long study exploring what influences people to grow up with what values causing them to behave they way they do. "You Are What You Were, When."His premise is, what you are is set in stone as you first acquire your values of good and what is bad, as you grow up in your early years. We don’t ditch those values when we get older unless there is what Dr. Massey terms a Significant Emotional Event (SEE) causes those values and learned behaviors to change. How we cope with whatever life throws our way is determined by what we learned as a child and as a youth growing up. Baby Boomers grew up admiring significantly different "heroes" than 20 somethings today. In very different value systems and world. "You may have seen Paris during the war, but ONCE YOU SAW PARIS, Peoria didn't look half as good as it used to."

Both of these life long studies and presentations clearly describe the whys, hows, what's.

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Sep 27Edited

Thanks, John, for sharing. As I learned in 3 plus decades of military service--Discipline is the bedrock of most well-meaning human behavior. Strongly believe our USA needs conscription service (e.g., military, educational, health, religious, et.al.,) to help instill/infuse the discipline that today is sorely lacking in most young adults. Further, I contend this lack of selfless service to our country is the root cause of the "lost boys" and young people in general. For evidence, just observe & study the exceptional success of Israel as a country, where mandatory military service (32 months for men, 24 months for women) is required.

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